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Adopted
and Adaptive: The Role Of Biculturals In World Redemption
by Stanley K. Inouye
Recently,
my wife and I adopted a little baby girl. As adoptive parents,
we were concerned about how and when we would tell our daughter
that she was adopted. The people at the adoption agency recommended
that we purchase a particular children's book entitled, "Why
Was I Adopted?", by Carol Livingston. They suggested
we place this book visibly on a shelf or table and read it
to our child from time to time as she grows up. By doing this,
our daughter would always know that she was adopted. We would
not have to endure the tension and apprehension of deciding
when, where, and how to "break the news" to her,
as if it were some dreaded, highly contagious, terminal disease.
When
I was growing up, I always feared that perhaps I had been
adopted. I didn't look much like either parent, or my brothers,
or sister. One day, when I needed a copy of my birth certificate,
my mother said she couldn't find it. I felt sure that my suspicion
had been confirmed. Even though I had been just as cared for
and loved as the other children in my family, I felt that
being adopted meant something unfortunate and pitiful and
that people felt sorry for you.
However,
as I read "Why Was I Adopted?" I was surprised
and pleased that adoption was portrayed as being something
extra special. In fact, the author warns the adopted child
not to be arrogant toward others who haven't been granted
such a privilege. For my wife and I, who for ten years had
wanted and tried so hard to have children, adoption is just
that special, and Heather, our daughter, is an extraordinary
gift from God.
Our
experience with adoption serves to illustrate a point that
I think is importantGod often has a positive view of
the very things we ourselves and society view as our weaknesses,
liabilities, and stumbling blocks. Paradoxically, these things
may be, in God's eyes, the very means to fulfilling a unique
function and calling he has for us.
As
an example, let us look at an adopted child in the Bible.
His name? Moses. Most of us are familiar with the life of
Moses and the role he played in leading the children of Israel
out from beneath the oppressive foot of Egyptian rule. As
you remember from the book of Exodus, Moses was born a Hebrew,
an oppressed and enslaved minority in the land of Egypt. As
an early attempt at population control, Pharaoh, the king
of Egypt, enacted an ordinance that called for the extermination
of all male babies born to the Hebrews.
Moses'
mother kept Moses as long as she could. Then she hid her son
in the bulrushes of the river where the daughter of Pharaoh
bathed. Pharaoh's daughter found the baby and recognizing
him to be Hebrew, decided to prevent his death. Moses' sister,
who had concealed herself in order to see what was to become
of her infant brother, then rushed to Pharaoh's daughter to
volunteer the services of a Hebrew woman, his mother, to nurse
the baby for her. Pharaoh's daughter agreed and Moses continued
to be raised in early childhood by his biological mother.
Moses was later adopted and named by Pharaoh's daughter. He
was granted the advantages and privileges attendant to being
a prince, growing up and educated under the roof of the king.
As a result, Moses was not only a minority and adopted, but
was also bicultural. His primary socialization was Hebrew
and his later child development was Egyptian.
As
a minority, adopted, and bicultural person, Moses encountered
several problems that many of us who share some of those characteristics
have experienced. For example, he had to ask himself, "Who
are my people? With whom do I identify most fully?" When
he saw an Egyptian smiting a Hebrew, Moses had to make a choice.
His decision perhaps attests to the high degree of influence
of early child-rearing on personality formation and values.
Moses slew the Egyptian.
When
Pharaoh heard what Moses had done, Pharaoh sought to kill
him. However, rather than being protected and harbored by
the Hebrews for whom Moses had killed and jeopardized his
own position of power and privilege, they too, viewed him
with suspicion and refused to help him. Alienated and rejected
by both sides, Moses fled to the land of Midian. There he
met and helped the seven daughters of the priest of Midian.
Whether due to his dress, demeanor, or use of language, they
thought Moses to be an Egyptian, another reflection of his
confusion over ethnic identity.
Moses
married Zipporah, one of the daughters of the priest of Midian
and for forty years learned to live the independent, isolated
life of a nomadic shepherd in the harsh desert north of the
Arabian peninsula. Moses and Zipporah had a son. Moses named
him Gershom, which means "alien" or "foreigner".
Moses chose that name because as he said, "I have been
an alien in a foreign land".
Moses
had moved from being born and named a member of a poor, oppressed,
and dependent minority to enjoying the power and privilege
of the wealthy, dominant, and yet equally dependent majority
in that same society. From this bicultural setting, Moses
became an immigrant, experiencing a cross cultural context,
developing an independent character and learning the survival
skills needed to subsist in a foreign and unpredictable land.
Within
such a cross-cultural framework, God called Moses to lead
the Israelites out of Egypt. And what was Moses' response?
He leveled three objections to God. Firstly, Moses asked,
"Who am I, that I should go unto Pharaoh, and that I
should bring forth the children of Israel out of Egypt?"
(Exodus 3:11, KJV). What I hear Moses saying is, "Are
you kidding me, God? The Pharaoh wants to kill me and the
Israelites don't trust me. The Egyptians reject me because
I'm a Hebrew and the Hebrews reject me because I'm Egyptian.
Do you have all your marbles, God? Are you sure I'm the right
person for the job?"
Secondly,
Moses speculated, "But, behold, they will not believe
me, nor hearken unto my voice; for they will say, 'The Lord
hath not appeared unto thee.'" (Exodus 4:1, KJV). In
colloquial English, Moses projects Israel's response to him:
"It's not logical that God would appear or speak to you.
You're not very Hebrew. You were educated an Egyptian. You're
married to a Midianite half-breed. You've been wandering around
the desert for forty years. You're not a recognized religious
leader with a reputable theological education. Has the heat
of the desert baked your brain? Why should we believe you,
a stranger, who has been gone for all this time? Why should
we believe that our God appeared to you and appointed you
to lead us victoriously out of the shadow of all of Pharaoh's
armies?"
Thirdly,
Moses pleaded, "I am not eloquent...but I am slow of
speech and of a slow tongue." (Exodus 4:10, KJV). My
interpretation of Moses' words is, "I don't speak Hebrew
or the Egyptian language very well. My Hebrew vocabulary is
that of a child, my command of the Egyptian language is rusty
and both are tainted by a Midianite's drawl. It takes me so
long to translate, I speak slowly, and then the words don't
come out too well."
God
answered Moses' reservations but only after Moses made the
first move to obey God by asking his father-in-law for permission
to go back to Egypt. Then, with the knowledge that all those
who sought his life were dead and with permission granted,
Moses and his family packed off for Egypt.
However,
Moses was still not too confident in himself or his God. And
as a result of his lack of faith, God sought to kill Moses.
Why? Because Moses took a safety precaution just in case God's
plan failed. He didn't circumcise his son. That way, if the
children of Israel were not freed, his son would not be recognized
as a Hebrew and therefore, not be enslaved. Fortunately, Zipporah,
Moses's wife, took a sharp stone and circumcised their son,
and Moses was spared.
Moses
repeatedly registered his lack of confidence in his ability
to speak both to the Hebrews and the Egyptians. Moses said
that he didn't have "circumcised lips." This is
a strange phrase that again reflects Moses' lack of belief.
Circumcision was a sign of covenant between God and the descendants
of Abraham. Certainly God had covenanted to be Moses' lips.
Moses did not accept God's covenant promise to speak through
what he viewed as his primary weakness. God had to appease
Moses' insecurity by appointing Moses' older brother, Aaron,
to speak for Moses.
The
question then arises, if Aaron was going to do all the speaking
anyway, why didn't the omniscient God choose Aaron in the
first place? Humanly speaking, Aaron had more logical qualifications.
Aaron was of the same primary Hebrew lineage of Levi and Moses.
Aaron was even the first-born son, Moses being the second-born.
Aaron suffered along with the children of Israel throughout
his life. He never left. Aaron was a recognized and trusted
leader and an effective communicator to Egyptian and Hebrew
alike. We don't find Aaron resisting and offering squeamish
excuses to God. So why did God choose Moses instead of Aaron?
Apparently, some of the very reasons Moses cited as why he
wasn't the right person for the job were the very qualifications
God had engineered in his life to equip Moses to fulfill His
purpose. Moses' minority, bicultural, and immigrant experiences
prepared him to carry out God's intentions.
In
what ways are being a minority, a bicultural, and an immigrant,
strategic assets for fulfilling unique roles in God's plan
for world redemption? I believe that those who are so privileged
to suffer the insecurities and tensions of intercultural and
cross-cultural lifestyles develop within themselves certain
character traits and skills that especially equip them to
serve as leaders of the people of God at times of dramatic
transition and extension.
The
example of Moses is not isolated. The Apostle Paul is another
case in point. If Paul did not have to reconcile throughout
his life the tensions between the two cultures of his background,
would he have possessed the analytical objectivity to see
beneath the cultural and religious form of circumcision to
its essential meaning? Through Paul's influence Gentile converts
did not have to be physically circumcised to become members
of the spiritually circumcised family of God. Would Paul have
been able to be so adaptive, accommodating, and innovative
in "becoming all things to men," had it not been
for his bicultural upbringing? He was able to speak with such
acuity to the Stoic and Epicurian philosophers in Athens because
he was a bicultural person. Paul served as a cultural bridge,
extracting essential meaning from Hebrew form and transferring
that meaning into relevant, new, cultural forms.
As
minorities and immigrants, Moses and Paul were able to develop
the spiritual self-reliance to depend solely on God, to be
cautious and yet know that risks must be taken. They had learned
to respect and accommodate cultural differences that are not
critically contrary to the character of God, and to identify
with the poor, the oppressed, and the alienated of the world
in any culture.
God
calls each of us with the same call as Mosesto be instruments
of liberation, bringing people to God, who will free them
from all that oppresses them and holds them in bondage. What
we view as our weaknesses, liabilities, and stumbling blocks,
may be in God's eyes, the very substance of what equips us
to fulfill His unique function and calling. God, indeed, "works
all things together for good, to those who love God and are
called according to His purpose." (Romans 8:28, KJV)
God's power is perfected in our weaknesses. (II Cor. 12:9-10).
For
ye see your calling, brethren, how that not many wise men
after the flesh, not many mighty, not many noble, are called;
but God hath chosen the foolish things of the world to confound
the wise.... (I Cor. 1:26-27)
Yes,
I believe God has a unique and strategic role for minorities,
bicultural people, and immigrants in His plan for world redemption,
both as cultural bridges and as cross-cultural interpreters
on behalf of the transcultural God. You who are of such backgrounds,
take a sound and proper estimate of yourselves. Neither be
arrogant nor depreciate the gift of your minority, immigrant,
or bicultural experiences. Use what your unique backgrounds
have taught you for their God-intended purposes.
You
who are not of such backgrounds, reach out to those who are,
not out of pity or a paternalistic sense that they need you
so desperately, but rather because your Lord has need of them
and you need them. They are the ones who are squeezed between
the cracks and crevasses of different cultures who will become
the very sauce that intermingles the flavors of the cultures
of humankind, preventing the stewpot we call planet earth
from boiling over or exploding. They are the ones who will
enable the human family to simmer as one harmonious whole,
yielding a sweet, savoring aroma unto God. The Lord, our God,
longs, and the entire creation groans, awaiting the adoption
of the children of God.
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