Out of the Fast Lane, Observing the Lord's Day the Lord's Way
by Stanley K. Inouye

An Invitation
When I look back over the years my family and I have been trying to faithfully observe the Sabbath, frustration arises over our inability to fully apply all the principles we know. It is difficult not to regret what we missed by not having that quality time with each other and our God. However, I am immensely thankful for the degree to which we did succeed in setting boundaries so time was available to rest and relate as the Lord intended. As much as we floundered in how we spent our Sabbaths, I believe we would not have survived without them. Under the continuous demands of founding a small, faith-supported ministry and caring for a daughter with a degenerative neuromuscular disease, we might have collapsed under the immense and constant pressure. But we did more than survive. We thrived. Janie and I are very excited about how both our daughters have grown in their faith and walk with the Lord. They are a constant encouragement to us, to keep going and continue growing in our relationship to God. Joelle recently passed away and is now experiencing a continual Sabbath with her Lord. However, Janie, Heather and I look forward to richer Sabbath experiences as we continue to learn what it means to “keep” the Sabbath holy.

Whenever we discover something deeply meaningful and life-changing, we automatically want to share it with others. So it is with Sabbath. This is the very reason behind this booklet. We long for the time when we will be able to observe the Sabbath together with more and more people. When I think of friends, families and churches celebrating Sabbath for an entire day, sharing in portions of the Sabbath together, I cannot imagine anything more enriching, unifying or worshipful this side of heaven. And, I cannot imagine any more powerful evidence of a risen Lord for those who are so relationally and group-oriented as the 97% of Japanese Americans, and other Asian Americans, who do not yet know Christ than being invited to participate in Sabbath with a group of Christians, unified and empowered by the Spirit of Christ.

I invite you, your friends, family and church to join my family and me as we seek to fulfill all Ten Commandments—including the Fourth—by remembering to keep the Sabbath holy. Wholeness and the Lord’s holiness awaits you. Get ready for rest, peace and joy!

For the Lord’s Sake and Yours,
Stan

Introducing Sabbath
Is the Big Ten really Nine?
The Ten Commandments is probably the one portion of the Bible that most people would think applies to all people and cultures in the same way and at any time. But, while The Ten Commandments may be timeless and transcultural in principle, they may not be in practice. For example, the Commandment telling us not to steal would be practiced one way in individualistic cultures, like American culture, where squabbles over personal possessions often occur between members of the same family, and in another way in group-oriented cultures where everything is owned and shared by the entire family. Although every culture has a concept of ownership, and therefore, of stealing, what would be “stealing” in one culture may not be “stealing” in another.

However, can we agree that the following Ten Commandments as summarized are timeless and transcultural in principle, if not in practice?

You shall have no other gods before me.
You shall not make for yourself an idol. . . .
You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God. . . .
Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. . . .
Honor your father and your mother. . . .
You shall not murder.
You shall not commit adultery.
You shall not steal.
You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor.
You shall not covet. . . anything that belongs to your neighbor.


Most of us would readily agree that nine of the Ten Commandments are timeless and transcultural principles. However, one of the Ten often seems to raise questions. That Commandment is the Fourth regarding the Sabbath. Let us take a closer look at the Fourth Commandment, which in its entirety reads as follows:

Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. Six days you shall labor, but the seventh day is a Sabbath to the Lord your God. On it you shall not do any work, neither you, nor your son or daughter, nor your manservant or maidservant, nor your animals, nor the alien within your gates. For in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, but he rested on the seventh day. Therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy. Exodus 20:8-11

So, is this Commandment timeless and transcultural in principle? Should it be applied today? Is it equally as important to God as the other nine? To address these questions, perhaps the first place to go would be to the Scriptures for God’s own answers to them.

Biblical Roots of Sabbath
Is it important to God that we observe the Sabbath?

Moses and Sabbath
God gave the Ten Commandments on stone tablets to Moses high on Mount Sinai. Before sending Moses down from the mountainside with them, he gave Moses additional instructions regarding one of them––the Sabbath Commandment. God said that whoever did any work on the Sabbath should be cut off from the people and be put to death.1 In this emphatic way, God made it absolutely clear how important the Sabbath was to him. He further punctuated its importance by the fact that this threat of excommunication and capital punishment for violating the Sabbath was his last recorded statement to Moses before sending him down to the people.

When Moses arrived at the base of Mount Sinai, he found the Israelites worshipping an idol––a golden calf. In anger, Moses smashed the stone tablets. God gave him a new set of blank tablets and sent him back up the mountainside to receive the Ten Commandments once again. This time, God underscored the importance of Sabbath in a new way. He told Moses that the people must rest and observe Sabbath on the seventh day even during the plowing season and harvest 2–– even when there was so much work to do.

When Moses returned the second time, God gave further instructions through Moses about how “the whole Israelite community” was to obey the Sabbath Commandment. They were not to light fires in their houses.3 So, heating their homes and even cooking on the Sabbath were considered “work” punishable by death for violating the Sabbath.

This seemingly trivial prohibition was no idle threat. The Bible records a situation in which a man who was gathering wood on the Sabbath, presumably to build a fire in his home, was brought before Moses, Aaron, and the whole assembly. They kept him in custody, because it was “unclear” to them as to what they should do with him. But God told Moses that the whole assembly was to take him outside of the camp and stone him to death. So they did as God commanded.4

But, was it really “unclear” to them? After twice communicating the Fourth Commandment to the Israelites, each time with explicit instructions, God cannot be faulted for being “unclear” as to what should be done to those who failed to observe the Sabbath. This was the only Commandment punctuated with the threat of excommunication and capital punishment for its disobedience.

Taking the offender outside the camp––excommunication—made it plain that the Sabbath violator was no longer a member of the faith community. The severing of relational ties can be far worse punishment than physical death for those who are members of highly group-oriented cultures like the Israelites. So relational isolation and death were to precede physical death.

Stoning to death––capital punishment–– was not only to be carried out in full public view, but all those assembled were to be involved directly in carrying out the death sentence by picking up stones and throwing them at the offender. Such an experience would undoubtedly leave an indelible memory etched in the minds and hearts of those who participated. They would never forget how important God considered the Sabbath, both for their relational health as a community and for their relationship to him.

But, what about us today? We don’t go around stoning people for failing to observe the Sabbath. However, it’s not because God is less serious about wanting us to observe the Sabbath today. In fact, he may be even more serious.

Jesus and Sabbath
When Jesus walked the earth, he was in conflict with Jewish leaders over the Sabbath more than anything else. He was at odds with they way they understood the Sabbath Commandment as well as the other Commandments. When he asserted that he did not come to abolish but to fulfill the Law and the Prophets5 ––that is, the Scriptures—he offered two examples that came straight from the Ten Commandments.

The first was the Sixth Commandment, “You shall not murder.” Jesus stated that if we are angry with our brother, it is the same as murder and, therefore, we will be subject to judgment and the punishment of hell.6

The second was the Seventh Commandment, “You shall not commit adultery.” Jesus contended that if we now look at a person lustfully, we have already committed adultery with that person in our hearts. As a consequence, hell was the punishment for disobeying the Seventh Commandment in this way as
well.7

So, Jesus not only maintained that the Ten Commandments were still in effect, but also extended them from being a set of behavioral rules to stricter regulations governing mind and heart. This makes us accountable to God for not only our actions, but our thoughts and motivations as well. And, we face consequences even greater than physical punishment. We face the fires of hell. Obviously, Jesus took the Ten Commandments very seriously.

The way Jesus taught about the Commandments reveals much more about him and his relationship to them than first meets the eye. He was not merely a teacher of the Law, but assumed much more authority than that. When he was teaching about the Ten Commandments, he introduced them by saying “You have heard that it was said. . .” followed by “But I tell you. . . .”8 Jesus did more than interpret the Law. He expanded its meaning and increased punishment for its disobedience. How did he get that right and authority?

According to the Bible, it is because Jesus is God. He is the Word through whom all things were made.9 In other words, Jesus is the Creator. As the Creator, Jesus himself rested from the work of creation on the seventh day, blessed it and made it holy. As God and Creator, Jesus is also the Author and Giver of the Commandments. That is the very reason Jesus is the “Lord of the Sabbath.”10 He originated it, so it is whatever he says it is. It is his own very special day that he invites us to enjoy with him.

Relevance of Sabbath Today
Why don’t many Christians observe Sabbath today?
The first Christians were largely Jews. After their conversion, they simply continued to observe the Sabbath with deeper meaning and joy. But when they found themselves less and less welcome to participate in the synagogue community, they participated more and more in the celebration of Jesus’ resurrection on the first day of the week with non-Jewish believers who soon began to outnumber them. While many Jewish Christians continued to observe Sabbath in their homes on the seventh-day, Sundays increasingly became the primary day of worship for the entire faith community together. And, early believers transferred much of what they understood about the Sabbath to how they spent their Sundays.

However, Sunday as a religious observance here in the U.S. became, over time, simply a national custom—a day off from work, meaning businesses had to be closed. And now, even this time-honored tradition is no longer observed. Many work, shop, and travel on Sundays. A Sunday is for catch-up, housework, and recreation.

Few Christians today observe anything close to what the Sabbath was meant to be. We have received amazingly little instruction on how to practically apply the principle of Sabbath to our lives today. Much of what we have come to know about it is so closely tied to biblical history and Hebrew culture that we find it difficult to relate to. The Israelites ate special food, performed certain rituals, wore special clothes, went to the temple, and did not work, cook or travel on the Sabbath. We fail to see what relevance these things have for us today.

With all the other Commandments, we assume we know what to do. We refrain from stealing according to what it means not to steal in our culture. We honor our parents according to how we revere someone in our society. We do these things automatically according to how our culture defines them, without much thought about how God defines them. And yet, we have difficulty remembering the Sabbath and keeping it holy because we don’t know intuitively how to do it—so we don’t.

Why is it important for Christians to observe Sabbath today?
Our first and foremost reason to honor the Sabbath is because it was and is so important to our Lord. It is the only reason we really need. At the same time, there are many other reasons why observing Sabbath is important.

In this commuter and computer age, we live our lives more and more in relative isolation from each other. Our lives are chopped up into isolated networks of people related to different programs, organizations or locations: people at home, work, play, school, and church.

When kids join a basketball team, they relate to other team members and their families at games and practices for the duration of the season. Once the season is over, each child and family moves on to the next athletic season, league and team. The end of the season usually means the end of relationships.

Relationships are generally performance-based, shallow and temporary. If kids are great players, they’re everybody’s favorite friends. But hardly anyone knows anything else about them. No one really cares as long as they show up and help win games. When the season is over, these relationships normally fizzle. As a result, most children lack close, deep, lasting friendships. They don’t know how to develop them, and might not even be aware they need them. Relationships automatically end whether they want them to or not, or when relationships get tiresome or tough, they can conveniently and easily move on. Sadly, this usually becomes the pattern for the rest of their lives.

And family relationships are not much different. They too have become performance-based, shallow and temporary. Increasingly, we are unable to sustain healthy relationships at home. Currently Christian marriages equal, if not surpass, the divorce statistics of non-Christians. Fewer children belong to families where mom and dad model for them what stable and permanent relationships look like and how such relationships are developed and maintained. More marriage and family relationships are compartmentalized, tied to certain activities, times and seasons. When family relationships get tough, we give ourselves permission to move on instead of facing each other and our problems. We commute rather than commit. We travel from relationship to relationship as tourists, never really making any set of relationships a permanent home or community.

What can we do to counter the compartmentalization and address our inability to nurture healthy relationships? Honor the Sabbath—observe the Lord’s Day the Lord’s way. When we as individuals, families, friends and churches begin to observe Sabbath the way the Lord of the Sabbath intended, then the needed time and space will be created to build deep and enduring relationships at all levels—built together with God and “under God.” Such relationships are what Asian Americans and other highly relational people so desperately desire and seek. Such relationships would enable Asian American Christians and churches to be salt and light in the midst of a relationally starving population riddled with hidden relational dysfunctions. Asian Americans want close families. They want to belong to a close-knit community to replace lost extended families. Family and community define individual identity for group-oriented Asian Americans, giving them meaning and purpose in life. Sabbath is a key to all this—renewal and salvation for both the Asian American Christian family and church, and the Asian American community as a whole.

Sabbath Explored
What kind of day is the Sabbath?
When God created human beings in his image,11 he created us to work and rest as he does. It is no wonder then that the Sabbath Commandment is among God’s “Big Ten.” And God uses about one third of all the words needed to communicate the entire Ten Commandments to spell out this single Commandment about Sabbath. This seems to be yet another indication of how important the Sabbath is to God.

From the Commandment itself, in Exodus 20:8-11 (see p. 2), we can get a good idea of what kind of day the Sabbath was meant to be.

- A day of rest: Sabbath is not an event or a ritual. It is a day—a 24-hour period, the final in a succession of seven. Events and rituals do occur on the Sabbath, but they take place to make the day meaningful—to enhance our rest, not cause us to work.

- A day of joy: It is a day that is dedicated to the Lord. According to the passage, God blessed this specific day in a special way—making it “holy” or set apart. God does not want us to allow anything to interfere with this sacred day so we can fully enjoy it with him. It is not only to be a holy day, but a joyful day.

- A day to be shared: It is not a day just for personal rest and devotion, but rather a day to be shared. Not only are we to rest, but our families, our employees, our animals, and even the “aliens” among us—strangers, people of different cultures, non-believers—are to be invited to share in our rest with the Lord. Part of the day is to be set aside so the entire community of faith can gather together in a special place to rejoice in God.

- A day to remember: The Sabbath is a day for remembering something crucially important to our health and well-being—that God is our Creator and we are those whom he created. By maintaining God’s rhythm of creation, we are more apt to stay in right relationship with him and the rest of Creation. Remembering the Sabbath is more than just recognizing that a historical event took place. By remembering Creation’s birth, we can renew our gratitude to the Lord for who he is and how he has blessed us, and be inspired to live our lives in a way that brings glory to God, our Creator. In doing so, we fulfill God’s design to be like him and maintain the sanctity of the Sabbath. Thus, God originated or “made” the Sabbath holy, and by remembering the Sabbath, we “keep” it holy.

From other passages we can learn a few more things about the Sabbath:

- A day God owns and observes: God told Moses to tell the Israelites, “You must observe my Sabbaths.”12 He thus asserted that all Sabbaths, not just the first Sabbath on the seventh day of creation, belong to him. And he seemed to imply that, whether we observe them or not, he observes each and every Sabbath himself. And that is why the rest of the passage identifies the Sabbath as serving two more functions: a sign and a covenant.

- A day that serves as a sign: God also called the Sabbath “a sign between me and you and generations to come.”13 He stated that the observance of his Sabbaths will be a sign to three audiences—God, God’s people (us), and coming generations. The words seem to indicate that observing Sabbath is an act of communication between him and us—first, from him to us, and then from us to him. Sabbath observance begins with God offering us his Sabbaths before we are called to respond by choosing whether or not to observe them. And, if we do, we symbolize something significant for the generations to come.

The Sabbath is like a wedding ring—a sign between a husband and wife. When a groom offers a wedding ring to his bride, he allows her the choice of entering into the marriage relationship by accepting the ring and wearing it. God offers us his Sabbaths and we are given the prerogative whether or not to enter into relationship with him by accepting and observing his Sabbaths.

- A day that symbolizes a covenant: Thus we can see how the Sabbath can be seen as a covenant. By exchanging marriage vows a man and woman enter into a mutual covenant that will govern their relationship for the rest of their lives. In a similar way, that is also what Sabbath signifies. It is a symbol of God’s covenant with us and our covenant with him.

Continuing to observe the Lord’s Sabbaths is like continuing to wear a wedding ring. As long as we continue to observe Sabbath, we continue to communicate to God and others that we want to continue the covenant relationship we have with him. Failing to observe the Sabbath is like taking off the wedding band. We communicate to God and everyone that we no longer want to be in relationship with him.

- A day that is holy: God also told Moses to tell the Israelites that the Sabbath is “holy to you” and in the same breath, told him to say it is “holy to the Lord.”14 Again, God underscored the reciprocal nature of Sabbath. It was meant to be holy, sacred, and special, non-negotiably set apart for both God and those of us who desire an ongoing and permanent relationship with him.

Sabbath can be seen as functioning like a weekly date night for a married couple. If a couple doesn’t spend quality time with one another and communicate on a regular basis, the intimacy of the relationship will gradually deteriorate to the point where they may be legally married, but are no longer relationally bonded to one another. This can happen to us in our relationship with God if we fail to observe Sabbath as it was meant to be observed. When we spend quality time with God each week, communicating with him and he with us, enjoying being with each other, and doing it together with family, friends, our church and acquaintances, our relationships with God and others will grow.

God also stated that the most essential outcome of observing Sabbath is “so you may know that I am the Lord, who makes you holy.”15 So if we treat the Sabbath as holy, then we will realize and remember who he is and who we are not—that he is the Lord of our lives and we are not, that we cannot make ourselves holy, only God can. It is also by getting to know the Lord more and more as we spend Sabbath after Sabbath with him that we come to know who he is and who he created us to be like—having created us in his image, that we might become holy as he is holy.

- A day for a gift exchange: Sabbath can also be seen as a gift that God gives us that we can offer back—something that we can then share and enjoy together with him. This idea is reflected in Jesus’ response to Pharisees who were angry with his disciples for unlawfully “working” on the Sabbath by picking grain because they were hungry. He said, “The Sabbath is made for man, not man for the Sabbath,” and called himself “Lord even of the Sabbath.”16 As the Creator who rested on the seventh day of creation, Jesus had the authority to explain that the Sabbath was intended to be a gift for us.

- A day that is a party: God told Moses that the Sabbath is one of his “appointed feasts” to be proclaimed a “sacred assembly.” So it wasn’t to be a burden, but a celebration banquet—a party full of joy and feasting, with the Lord himself as host. Hardly a somber occasion, Sabbath is like a family reunion, celebrated with our heavenly Father at the head table. This does not mean that everyone is supposed to be together all the time. There may well be time for some personal reflection and rest. But it is designed to be a highly relational day.

Who should observe Sabbath with you?
The Sabbath is not a day to be spent primarily alone—for rest, reflection and recreation—but a day to be spent with others. It is to be an “appointed feast” and a “sacred assembly.”17 The list of who this would be, taken from the Sabbath Commandment itself, included servants, children, animals, and aliens. It seems to include everyone we are associated with on a daily basis. In today’s terms, who might this be?

- Co-workers and employees: “Servants” and “slaves” today could be people who work for and with us. They need their rest too. Others should not have to work so we can rest. Our rest should not be at the expense of others. When our rest and observation of the Sabbath increases the work of others or prevents them from resting, then we have not helped our relationship with them—our positive influence on their lives, their productivity, or their desire to be in relationship with the Lord of the Sabbath and Creation. And when we not only allow them to rest, but also invite them to enter into our Sabbath, as the Lord invites us to enter into his, by relating to them beyond roles and responsibilities, relationships deepen and diversify. Our relationships with them become interpersonal and not just functional. Not only does personal productivity increase, but corporate productivity does also during the rest of the week.

- Children: The “appointed feast” is not a banquet we enjoy while others are slaving over a hot stove in the kitchen, waiters and waitresses are scurrying about busing food and dishes, and our children are being watched by babysitters. Nor does the “sacred assembly” mean a bunch of highly religious adults sitting around singing hymns and sharing precious passages. The “feast” and “assembly” God desires is intergenerational. It includes people of different socio-economic strata as well as the entire “household.”

- Pets and work animals: The domestic animals who are a part of our daily lives, whether pets or work animals, are not to be kenneled or corralled with no human companionship on the Sabbath. They need quality time spent with people, and rest, as we do. As a result, they will be happy pets and productive work animals.

- Strangers and non-believers: Our Sabbath celebrations are also to include “aliens”—strangers or foreigners—that is, people we don’t know very well, people not much like us, and people we just happen to meet. They may not even be fellow believers. They may not know anything about Sabbath, let alone the Lord of the Sabbath.

By including strangers in our Sabbath, we reflect another aspect of God’s character— reaching out to those who are not yet his. Sabbath is not only for the benefit of believers, but non-believers as well. In this way, Sabbath may even be seen as evangelistic—a type of evangelism that might be effective among those who are highly family- and group-oriented as is true of Asian Americans. By being allowed to participate in the Sabbath of believers, highly relational non-believers are able to “taste and see that the Lord is good” in a way most meaningful to them.18 They are able to see and experience the love of the Lord as a result of being included in the Sabbath observance of believing families, friends, and churches. They are able to see and experience the difference the Lord makes in that which is most important to them—relationships.

When and how long should Sabbath be observed?
- One day in seven: For six days, God was busy creating the universe. After he finished, he chose to take a day off to reflect on what he accomplished, find satisfaction in what he had created, and celebrate the work of his hands. He then decided to consecrate the seventh day as a holy day of remembrance,19 thus establishing a cycle of work and rest for all time—a cycle that may have been built into our biological clocks by our Creator.

- Evening to evening: According to the creation account in Genesis, each day began in the evening. So when God originated the Sabbath by resting on the seventh day, he did so by beginning in the evening. The Sabbath traditionally has been measured similarly—from evening to evening. Starting the Sabbath in the evening may be important for two reasons: First, it follows a normal day of work. It is consistent with the daily work and rest cycle of most people on the other six days. We are less likely to be tempted to work after putting in a full day of work already. We are ready to rest. Secondly, in the evening we are better able to change mindsets and prepare ourselves for the special day of rest ahead. And what better way to prepare for a day of rest than to enjoy an evening of relaxing transition followed by a good night’s sleep.

- Day and night: According to Psalm 92: 1-2, which was sung at the time of the morning sacrifice on the Sabbath, it is good to praise and make music to the Lord, and to proclaim his “love in the morning” and his “faithfulness at night.” If we read this literally, we might see it as confining our observance of Sabbath to just morning and night. But if we read it in a poetic way, we can see that it is really encouraging us to participate in Sabbath all day and night long.

- When agreed upon by the faith community: God also designated a particular day in which all of his people were to observe Sabbath together. He didn’t want each of us individually to set aside a day of the week of our own choosing. He meant it to be a day set aside by the whole community of believers, celebrated together. When others are working, whether in the same family, church or workplace, it is extremely difficult to rest. And rest is not only made easier, it is enhanced when we rest and worship together. There was a time in America when stores, restaurants, and businesses were closed on Sundays to enable Christians to set aside a day to rest. But today, Christians have little influence over what the secular world does any day of the week. So where they can, Christians must decide when and on what day they will join in Sabbath as families, friends, work associates and fellow church members.

Where should we observe Sabbath?
God told the Israelites that they were to “have reverence for (his) sanctuary”20 when they observed his Sabbaths. So they went to the synagogue on Sabbath. For most of us, this would be church. God also told them that on the Sabbath they were not to light a fire “in any of (their) dwellings.”21 So this instruction implied that God’s people were also to observe Sabbath in their homes. In addition, he said that they were not to do any work “wherever (they) live.”22 So both the home and the church located anywhere in the world were to be sacred assemblies where God is especially revered on the Sabbath.

What were the Israelites not supposed to do on the Sabbath?
Other than going to the synagogue, they were supposed to stay home, and not go out even to get food.23 Even though others were working on Sabbath by marketing their goods, they were not to shop or buy anything—food or merchandise—on the Sabbath.24 They were not even to cook, but were to prepare meals ahead of time so they neither had to go out to get food nor spend much time and effort putting it on the table.25 And they were not to light fires or do anything to build a fire, such as gather wood, and keep it going.26

What are we not supposed to do on Sabbath today?
Are we under the same prohibitions today as the Israelites were? What we must remember is the overall principle behind Sabbath. The Lord doesn’t want us to work, but to rest. All of these prohibitions represent what was work for certain members of the family and society in the Israelites’ day. Traveling, shopping, cooking, and making fires were all very laborious and time-consuming activities at that time. Each was hard work for someone and a distraction from what God wanted his people to do and experience together on the Sabbath.

Now that we have cars, convenience stores, fast food restaurants, microwave ovens, and thermostatic heaters, should we not do any of these things today? It’s debatable. Sometimes we will not come to any definite conclusions about any particular category of activity like shopping. We may come to believe it is okay to pick up a quart of milk on the way home from church, but not make a special trip to go out and shop for a new car or major appliance. Or, we may feel like some of these activities are now okay and others are not. For instance, we may decide it is not a good idea to cook, so we go to a fast food restaurant, but as a result we have left home and essentially shopped for something. Or, we may feel it is better to stay home, but feel it acceptable to cook a meal in the microwave because it takes so little time and energy. Or, we believe it is fine with God to enhance our family time together by adding the warm glow of a fire in the fireplace.

We may come to the conclusion that the main thing the Lord really didn’t want the Israelites to do on the Sabbath was any tedious, time-consuming household chores that split the family household apart. Today, those chores may translate to not doing six tubs of laundry, fixing the plumbing, changing the oil on the car, or doing yard work. And, if we are to be true to the principle of Sabbath, we might come up with a whole new list of time-consuming, energy-draining, family-scattering distractions we shouldn’t do on Sabbath like being mesmerized by computer games or the Internet, holding a church budget meeting, cleaning and organizing the refrigerator, or paying the monthly bills.

God is not so concerned about preventing us from doing certain specific things on the Sabbath as he is with protecting us so we won’t miss what he wants us to do and experience. In fact, God wants to take our focus off of “doing,” so we can focus on “being.” This brings us to the next logical question.

What does God want us to do and experience on the Sabbath?
God wants us to experience a day full of rest, release and relaxation; fun and freedom. He wants us to be thankful; to bask in his presence; to appreciate all he has provided; to realize what we have accomplished during the week and find satisfaction. He wants us to party. The Lord loves parties—celebrations, feasts, holidays, reunions. Just check out the Bible to find out how much he loves a wholesome, holy time of eating, singing, and dancing with us.

At the same time, the Lord also desires to balance our party times with solitude, quiet reflection, deep conversation, and just plain kick back time. He wants us to “hang out” with him!

He is the owner and host of the vacation island he has invited us to visit and enjoy. He has our entire stay planned. He knows exactly what we need and what will bring the most joy and pleasure, both to us and to him. We are his honored guests. Let’s remember he is the Father in the parable who loves having his children come home. And, every time we do, he wants us to celebrate our renewed relationship with him.

Sabbath is a time when we shift the paradigm from “got to” to “get to.” Instead of being under the weight of all we have got to do, ought to do, and are made to do by those in authority over us, we observe Sabbath as a day when we get to do those things that infuse all the got to’s with purpose and meaning—work worth doing, tasks not under the authority of humans, but under the control of the Lord of the Universe.

Sabbath is a day when we stop to reflect on why we are doing what we do the rest of the week. We come to recognize that it is the Lord for whom we are doing all we do. We quiet ourselves so it can dawn on us who God fully is and how important we are to him. We also discover who we really are and who is most important to us.

Jesus was often in conflict with the Pharisees because they had become fixated on his don’ts . They were so obsessed with making sure that they and everyone else avoided doing whatever God said they were not to do, they lost sight of his true objective— stop doing and concentrate on being. The Sabbath became a heavy burden instead of the wonderful gift the Lord wanted us to receive joyfully and freely.

The last thing we want to do here is turn the Sabbath into another day full of burdensome don’ts. The rest the Lord wants us to experience is not achieved by our going wherever we want to go, doing whatever we want to do, saying whatever we want to say. We experience it by finding our “joy in the Lord” who will cause us “to ride on the heights”27 —that is, take us to a spiritual “high.” It is not a day of license and laxity to do whatever we please. It is a day of thorough enjoyment and uninhibited worship of the God who yearns to set our spirits free. That’s a promise and his guarantee!

Summary of Sabbath Ingredients
So how does the Lord want us to spend our Sabbaths with him so the outcome he promises—true and total rest—will be fulfilled in our lives? The following is a summary of the ingredients making up God’s recipe for rest.

- Reflection: At the end of the sixth day of creation, the Lord not only reflected upon what he had accomplished on that particular day, but also took stock of what he had done over the entire workweek. When he did, he concluded that what he had created wasn’t too bad—in fact, “it was very good.”28 The Lord found satisfaction and fulfillment in his work and set a precedent he wants us to follow so we too might find satisfaction and fulfillment in the work he gives us to do. Reflecting as the Lord did at the end of six days of work is the pivotal point between a week of work and a maximum day of rest.

- Relaxation: By reflecting upon what he had done and being pleased with what he had accomplished, the Lord was able to enter into the seventh day of creation with a positive attitude.29 It would have been difficult for him to bless the seventh day and make it holy if he had been upset over what he had created, feeling he had done a poor or incomplete job, or if he never looked back because he was under constant pressure to do more or better, never being satisfied that whatever he did was good enough. The Lord wants us to look back on a daily and weekly basis to assess what we have accomplished together with him, and be able to measure our transformation as a result of his work in our lives.

- Rejuvenation: Sabbath began in the evening, providing a period of transition. It prepared those observing Sabbath for the next day, as well as for the upcoming night. An especially restful night’s sleep was as much a part of Sabbath as anything else, and such sleep was also the best preparation for the day ahead.30

- Reverence: Although the Lord told the Israelites to stay home during the Sabbath, he also told them to go to the synagogue. They were to “have reverence for my (the Lord’s) sanctuary,”31 This did not mean that they were to go and worship the sanctuary itself, but they were to go and revere the One who dwells within and calls it “my” sanctuary. By going reverently on Sabbath morning to the synagogue to worship the Lord, a foundation was laid for the rest of the day, making it more focused and reverent.

- Remembrance: When the Lord tells us to “remember the Sabbath and keep it holy,”32 he tells us two things. First, he wants us to maintain the Sabbath at the highest priority so we won’t neglect it. Secondly, he wants us to remember what Sabbath represents. Sabbath reminds us of creation—how we were created, for what purpose, and by whom. Our welfare depends on remembering who we are in relationship to our Creator. Faithful observance of the Sabbath day regularly reminds us of this crucial foundation for daily life.

The Lord also told the Israelites to remember how they were slaves in Egypt and how he delivered them, and therefore he commanded them to observe the Sabbath.33 So Sabbath also reminds us of how our Creator has protected and provided for us ever since he created us. By remembering the Lord’s continual care for us in the past, we find assurance of his care in the future.

- Realization: The Lord called his Sabbaths a “sign” so that we would know that he is the Lord who makes us holy.34 The end result of remembering weekly who created us and his continual care over the years is that we increasingly realize who he is and how little we can do on our own, especially when it comes to living a life acceptable to God and all he intended it to be.

- Rejoicing: When we remember who created us and his continual care and realize how great he truly is, we experience joy that inevitably erupts from deep within us.35 We cannot help but rejoice, worship, and celebrate.

- Relationships: The Sabbath is also to be “a day of sacred assembly.”36 It is a day not to be spent entirely alone, but a day also enjoyed with others and with the Lord himself. The “sacred assembly” referred to here is not only the formal gathering at the synagogue or church, but includes the more informal gatherings throughout the day—many times over a shared meal—with others observing the Sabbath. Sabbath is a day to reaffirm, reconcile, nurture and celebrate relationships. It is meant to be a weekly spiritual family reunion.

- Reaching Out: Not only are those in our households to be included in our observance of Sabbath, strangers or foreigners—people we don’t know very well, people not much like us, and people we just happen to meet—are invited to enjoy Sabbath as guests.37 It is here that we can see how Sabbath was meant both for the spiritual renewal of believers and the effective evangelization of nonbelievers.

- Refreshment: The end result of Sabbath is refreshment—refreshment for everybody, even animals.38 The Lord meant the beginning of the week to be a new beginning—a new and “fresh” start. If we don’t properly observe Sabbath, our experience on the first day back to work would likely be far from fresh. After being so busy cramming activities and chores into our weekend, we drag ourselves back to work hoping for some rest that never comes. Our energy spirals downward because we neglect what our Creator knows we need to enjoy the lives he has designed for us.

Suggested Sabbath Rhythm
As with many a cooking recipe, the desired maximum outcome of Sabbath can best be achieved by adding the various ingredients in a certain sequence. This order may vary depending on a variety of different circumstances. Your church may not worship in the morning. Young single adults may order their Sabbath ingredients in a different sequence than a family with young children. The following is just one suggested sequence that may fit a broad range of people well:

Sabbath Evening
Reflection
Relaxation

Sabbath Night
Rejuvenation

Sabbath Morning
Reverence
Remembrance
Realization
Rejoicing

Sabbath Afternoon
Relationships
Reaching Out
Result
Refreshment

Sample Sabbath
Let’s apply the suggested Sabbath rhythm to a hypothetical family. The scenario that follows should be seen as a simplistic and idealized picture that will seldom be true in real life. It will be different for each unique family, individual or household and will vary widely from week to week depending on changing circumstances. It is just an idea of how the Sabbath principles we have explored might be practically applied.

Also, how this hypothetical family spends their Sabbath is not something that a real family would be able to do immediately after they have decided to try observing Sabbath together. In reality, it would take a great deal of time and many starts and stops, ups and downs, trials and errors, frustrations and triumphs before a Sabbath as described becomes even a somewhat normal occurrence.

A good start is to simply stop doing what is normal during the rest of the week, then be open to spending the newly available time in deliberately different ways that are explored, discussed and decided upon by all those involved. This process in itself is relational and appropriate for Sabbath as long as it is not done in too cumbersome a manner. Otherwise, it will become tedious work or easily turn into an argument. The rule of thumb here is, “Chill out, and trust God!”

End of the Week
Preparation
We will call our hypothetical family the Suzukis. Dad’s name is Sean and Mom’s is Stephanie. Their daughter and son are named Chloe and Nathan. Since life in our technological age is not regulated so much by when the sun rises and falls but by the tick of the clock, they have decided to start and end their Sabbath at 6 p.m. Because their church worships together on Sunday morning, they have set aside from Saturday at 6 p.m. to Sunday at 6 p.m. as Sabbath.

Toward the end of the week and particularly on Saturday morning and afternoon, everyone is busy finishing their week’s work. Mom and Dad are making sure the bills are paid, there are plenty of groceries in the pantry and refrigerator, the lawn is mowed and the dog has been bathed. Chloe and Nathan are making sure they’ve finished their homework, their rooms are clean, their clothes have been washed, they’ve finished their other chores, and they have answered all their e-mail.

Typically, around 4 p.m. on Saturday, the pace quickens. Everyone is trying to complete whatever needs to be done before Sabbath begins. The kitchen becomes an especially busy place as they join in on the preparation for the evening meal.

Saturday dinner is extra special. It’s the most elaborate meal of the week. Everyone teams up to prepare it. The menu is an assortment of their favorite foods. Ironically, as special as the food is, they have decided to eat on paper plates. They finish washing the pots and pans before dinner so all they have to do afterwards is throw the paper and plastic dinnerware away.Sabbath Evening

Reflection
At 6 p.m. the Suzuki family sits down at the table, holds hands, and bows their heads. They sit in silence for a few moments to quiet their racing minds, bodies, and emotions. Dad thanks the Lord for the food and the evening ahead.

As they leisurely dine, they reflect. They share their week with one another—the fun they’ve had, the ways they’ve struggled, how the Lord has worked in and through their lives, and how they’ve grown. They ask each other questions. They identify what they’ve accomplished and what they have to be thankful for. They recognize how the Lord has revealed himself throughout the week—through answered prayer, a particular passage of Scripture, another person, an inspiration, or a surprising serendipitous intervention of the Holy Spirit. They end with dessert and Mom closes in prayer.

Relaxation
Everyone helps clear the table. They put leftovers into the refrigerator, throw away the disposable dinnerware, and run the trash out to the garbage can. Then they meet in the family room to watch a video dramatizing the life of Christ, the second in a four-part series they started the week before. When it’s over, they share any insights about Jesus they may have gained, and discuss the implications for how they live their lives, and relate to others and the world around them. This is not meant to be an intense exercise, but rather a relaxed time to think about Jesus and enjoy being with him.

There are many other activities they could do, including: singing praise songs around the piano or with the guitar; having an extended time of prayer; reading through one of the Gospels; following a family devotional guide; sharing favorite Bible passages; telling special stories of how the Lord provided, protected, and guided, answered prayer, and revealed himself; or simply going to bed extra early after a particularly rough week.

The family also sprinkles in times of pure fun and enjoyment. They might watch a movie pre-selected by Mom and Dad that reinforces or at least doesn’t contradict biblical values; play board games, especially those that encourage personal communication; eat pizza, smores and ice cream sundaes; sit around the fireplace popping popcorn and quietly talking; or perform for one another on musical instruments. The emphasis here is not primarily on their vertical relationship with God, but rather on their horizontal relationships with one another.

At the close of their evening together, they always end in conversational prayer. Dad usually starts. Mom closes. Chloe and Nathan offer their prayers in-between. They thank God for the specific ways he has worked in their lives in the past week. They thank him for blessing the evening they have just spent together. They pray for an especially restful night of sleep and the Sabbath day ahead.Sabbath Night

Rejuvenation
After an evening of reflection and relaxation, they embrace one another and go to their respective bedrooms to sleep. In the quiet of their beds, they drift off to sleep with lingering thoughts and feelings of the evening—the sharing, praising, playing, and praying together—all the old and new blessings of the Lord. Their sleep is sound and deeply rejuvenating.

Sabbath Morning
Reverence
Mom and Dad wake up later than on weekdays but still earlier than Chloe and Nathan who have to be nudged out of their slumber. Everything that has transpired since 6 p.m. yesterday has prepared them for what is ahead. Each looks with anticipation to what lies ahead. Sabbath is the highlight of their week.

They get dressed and converge in the kitchen. Breakfast is light and without preparation. Again they use disposable cups, plates and dinnerware. Sometimes they eat toasted bagels with cream cheese, cold cereal and milk, or breakfast pastry bought the day before. After some fruit or juice, milk or coffee, they are off to church for Sunday school and worship service.

While on their way to church, they sometimes take advantage of the time in the car to pray together for their upcoming time of learning, worship, fellowship and outreach.

Remembrance
Whether through the Sunday school lesson and Bible study or the sermon preached during the worship service, Mom, Dad, Chloe and Nathan learn new things about what God has done throughout biblical history or are reminded of what they already know. They remember the ways this same God has revealed himself and acted on their behalf in their own lives as individuals, as a family and as a faith community at church.

Realization
As they remember the ways God has worked and revealed himself in the Bible and in their own experience, they are struck with the renewed realization of who God is and the truth of his living presence right at that moment. They realize that he is working among them and revealing himself to them even as they think these thoughts and feel these overwhelming feelings of joy or comfort in their sorrow.

Rejoicing
Emotion gives way to expression. They cannot help but rejoice through praise, singing, and the lifting of hands. Each rejoices from within, but their voices blend together as a mighty chorus, fueling even more resounding praise. Spirits are set free to commune totally with God, to sense the reality of oneness with him through his Holy Spirit. As the pastor recites the benediction, they know that it is the Lord himself who is sending them forth into their work-a-day world, but not alone— with him, to fulfill his purposes.

Sabbath Afternoon
Relationships
After worship service, the family joins in on whatever fellowship activities have been planned. It may be as simple as a coffee hour, or as elaborate as a potluck. Sometimes entire Sundays are devoted to a church picnic or beach outing. Just as the worship service reinforced the vertical relationship of the church family to the Lord, so these fellowship activities help reinforce the horizontal relationships they have with one another.

After church, the Suzukis are available to respond to others in any way the Lord leads. They may have lunch with another family. Or, the Lord might have convicted them of the need to spend time with certain people so they invite them home for lunch or to come over later in the afternoon. They might visit someone who was missing from church, perhaps due to illness, and offer help and prayer or bring over a meal. Or, if someone new showed up alone at church, they would be available to invite that person to lunch, either at their home or at a local restaurant. The Suzukis always have a well stocked pantry, refrigerator and freezer full of a variety of fast, ready-made meals that can be popped into the microwave or oven in quantities ample enough to serve not only themselves but any guests they might have invited to join them.

Reaching out
As well as responding to new people at church, the Suzukis also take the initiative to invite people they already know to enter into their celebration of Sabbath. Sometimes several church families will join together and have a swim party or barbecue at one of their homes. Canned chili, store-bought potato salad, hot dogs and hamburgers are often on the menu. Having pizza delivered is also a favorite. An afternoon hike is another great alternative for young families to do. The expressed purpose of these get-togethers is not primarily fellowship, but outreach. This gives the youth an opportunity to introduce non-Christians to Christian friends and family, allowing them to get a taste of the difference Christ can make in their lives, and in the lives of entire families and whole communities. When possible, they will invite not only their friends, but their friends’ families as well.

Many times Chloe or Nathan will invite non-Christian friends or relatives their age to spend the entire Sabbath with them. Mom and Dad invite friends, relatives, and work associates together with their families to join them for Sabbath too. Many times, they partner with Christian friends and family members to reach out on a regular basis to certain individuals, networks and families.

As a rule, they introduce non-Christians to Christians, the church, and Christianity in a gradual, non-threatening, non-confrontational manner. They lead non-Christians through a gradual process at whatever speed is comfortable for the non-Christians. They begin by inviting non-Christians to activities that are informal before inviting them to events and programs that are more directly Christian like Bible studies and support groups, Sunday school classes and church worship service. At the same time, the church leadership is careful to be sensitive to the presence of non-Christians by using language they can understand and examples that are relevant to them. Whenever theological or “churchy” terminology must be used, it is defined as clearly as possible.

The Suzukis’ church also schedules events and programs specifically oriented towards non-Christians. A basic Christianity class, beginning Bible study, evangelistic retreat are included among the opportunities offered by the church to help non-Christians feel welcome and to address their specific needs, questions and issues. However, it must be remembered that these ministry activities are not meant to replace what is happening interpersonally between Christians and non-Christians. Many Christians tend to lead with events and programs and may not follow up interpersonally. We need to start where they live and in their language, then invite them to join us where we live, and finally follow-up with events and programs.

In any case, whether the Suzukis spend the afternoon alone as a family or with other families or individuals, Christian or non-Christian, they always end their Sabbath with a quiet time together, reflecting upon what they did during Sabbath and the many ways the Lord blessed them. Finally, they close in prayer. If non-Christians are present, it may be very short and simple. Mom or Dad might say just a few words of thanks directed toward God, but with eyes open. Or, alone as a family or with other Christians, everyone may express their thanks through conversational prayer. Just as the Sabbath began in prayer talking with the Lord, so it ends in the same way at 6 p.m. Sunday.

While the Suzukis’ observance of the Sabbath is over, its impact has just begun. The way they observed Sabbath has set the pattern and tone for the new week ahead.

First Evening of the Week
Sunday Evening
Review
The family all pitches in to make dinner. If it is an evening before a school week, the meal is kept very simple. But if school is not in session they may have fun putting together an elaborate meal. In either case, they will spend some of their time over the dinner table reviewing what happened the past week and over Sabbath, so they can determine what they need to do during the upcoming week.

Redirection
As a result, they reorder their priorities and redirect their activities in ways they feel led by God. They often refer to the family calendar in the kitchen so that it is updated. Dad pushes his stylus around his palm pilot to make sure he doesn’t miss Nathan’s soccer practice, Chloe’s piano lesson or his night out with Mom. After they have brought their calendars and “things-to-do” lists up to date, they recommit themselves to the Lord remembering Proverbs 16:9 which says, “In his heart a man plans his course, but the LORD determines his steps.”

Ultimately, they know that the upcoming week will be filled with things they cannot predict or control, but that they are in the Lord’s care and protection. They can look to the coming week with optimism at how God is going to meet their needs wonderfully and undoubtedly surprise them.

Re-entry
Once again, they pray as a family. They are now prepared to pray specifically for the concrete tasks and events ahead of them. They end by reciting some of their favorite verses that give them courage to face the future, like Philippians 4:13: “I can do everything through him who gives me strength” or Philippians 1:6: “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” As they end their time together with a resounding “Amen!” they are now ready for re-entry into the world.

Sunday evening is devoted to preparation for Monday. It is the launch of a new and full week of work. So, Dad irons the shirt he needs tomorrow. Mom takes inventory of the refrigerator. Nathan tries to finish a geometry assignment. And Chloe packs her lunch for school tomorrow. A new week has begun. “Banzai!”

Customizing Sabbath
Now that we have an idea of how one family spends their Sabbath, we can now begin to conceptualize how each of us, together with our own families, friends and churches might observe our own Sabbaths. We can take the overall principle of Sabbath and apply it in an entirely different way—going from morning to morning, night to night, or on a different day. And there is nothing sacred about the exact way we have structured the suggested rhythm for Sabbath or have divided up its ingredients. While what we have introduced has biblical basis, it is not the only way Scripture can be interpreted or applied. Our goal is to simply offer some practical guidelines so observing Sabbath is not an overwhelming task. Being overwhelmed is the exact opposite of what the Lord wants for us to experience on this special day of our week.

How do you decide whether a particular activity should be done on the Sabbath?
What follows is a checklist to help you decide for yourselves what to do during your own Sabbath with Lord. The following questions help you to determine whether or not a specific activity is consistent with God’s will.

Sabbath Checklist
- Am I tuned in and relying upon the Holy Spirit?
- Is this activity consistent or contrary to Scripture?
- Is it different from what I do during the rest of the week?
- Does it drain or rejuvenate me?
- Does it promote a spirit of thanksgiving and rejoicing?
- Does it involve and include others? Christians? Non-Christians?
- Does it forge intimacy with God? With others?
- Is it relationship- and being-based rather than activity- and performance- based?
- Do I feel led by the Holy Spirit to do it?

With some things, the answer will always be “yes” or “no.” However, sometimes there is no categorical answer to your question. It depends on the situation you are facing on that particular day or with the specific people involved. Sometimes the only and sufficient determinant is the leading of the Holy Spirit.

Test Case 1
Should we shop on the Sabbath?
One example of this kind of ambiguity involves whether we should go to a convenience store on the Sabbath because we happen to be out of milk. The literal interpretation of the Bible prohibits us from shopping on the Sabbath. However, if the main reason God didn’t want his people to shop in the cultural setting of the time was because shopping was such a time-consuming and tiring task, then the situation is different today. We can jump in the car, drive a couple of miles, purchase a quart of milk, and be back in our kitchen in about twenty minutes. But if the reason the Lord didn’t want us to shop is because shopping diverts our attention away from the spiritual and relational, then we shouldn’t shop no matter how little time it takes. At the same time, if a family member picks the weekend to get sick, we might have to go to the pharmacy or grocery store for medications during Sabbath. It seems reasonable to think that the Lord would want us to shop on the Sabbath on those occasions.

Test Case 2
Should we watch a movie on the Sabbath?
Another example is whether we should watch a movie on Sabbath. Our decision depends on the answers to several questions. What movie do we want to watch? Is the movie enrichment or escape? Do we need to drive to a theater thus consuming a great deal of time we would want to spend otherwise, or can we watch it conveniently at home in a relatively short period of time? Is the movie going to be watched alone or with others? Is the movie time competing with other more essential and fundamental Sabbath activities? Does the movie reinforce biblical values, and help us to get to know God and his creation better? Does it stimulate interaction about spiritual issues, Christ, and the Word of God? Does watching the movie with others draw them closer to one another or tend to divide them? These are just a few questions to ask when determining whether or not to watch a movie on Sabbath.

Some Simple Suggestions
The process may be as important as the outcome
Sometimes it isn’t easy to decide what to do on the Sabbath. However, occasionally the decision-making process itself may be what is important and worthwhile. Making right choices might be just what the Lord wants you to focus upon at that particular time. If so, struggle and muddle through the process. At other times, however, the fog shrouding the issue might be the very indicator you need to decide that the activity isn’t worth the effort. It may not be bad or wrong, but if it’s too difficult to decide—why bother? Do something else that is clearly appropriate, meaningful and enjoyable.

Don’t knit-pick
Most times, we have better things to do with our time on Sabbath than knit-pick about what we should do. Then, we become like the Pharisees. They were so obsessive about deciding what should and shouldn’t be done on the Sabbath that they compiled a seemingly endless list of Sabbath rules and regulations tangled in semantics and buried by minutia. They lost sight of the forest because they were so consumed with the trees, leaves, bark and termites. The Lord wanted to free them from burdens on the Sabbath. Yet, they enslaved themselves with rules. The Sabbath became a self-imposed, unbearable burden rather than a joyful gift and blessing from the Lord.

Do what you know to do
A helpful rule of thumb is this, “Concentrate on what we should do on the Sabbath, not on what we shouldn’t.” There are things we should and could do on Sabbath we already know please God— non-ambiguous things we needn’t agonize over.

Ask and expect an answer
Another practical guideline is “When in doubt, ask God.” When we get mired in rationalization, we are often trying to convince ourselves that it’s okay to do something we know, deep down, we shouldn’t. If there is ever a time when we are focused and sensitive to the leading of the Holy Spirit, it is during Sabbath. So, after activating your spiritual antenna, ask the Lord directly what his will is regarding a certain activity. Then listen—expecting an answer. If you have little confidence God will answer, or that you will be able to discern what he is revealing to you, then you have another problem you need to attend to first. If, however, you do hear from the Lord—do what he tells you to do.

Often our dilemma is a result of making the issue a cerebral matter of right and wrong, good or bad, biblical or not, rather than a matter of the Lord’s specific will for us on that specific Sabbath day. It might not be wrong, bad or contrary to Scripture, but the Lord might want us to do or not do whatever it is we’re thinking about based on the circumstances surrounding that particular day. God may just as well want us to do whatever it is on a different Sabbath or a day other than Sabbath.

Seek God’s specific will
We must not only seek the general will of God, but also his specific will. Each such decision must be arrived at, not only as a result of an intellectual process, but also a relational one. In order to determine how God wants us to spend our Sabbath day, we must not only study the Word, but also, pray.
There will be an endless number of situations that will arise during Sabbath that our biblical beliefs will not automatically dictate how we respond. A friend becomes sick. A non-Christian neighbor invites us over for dinner. Our sewer backs up. Our child wants to play games on the Internet. Our church holds a budget committee meeting. We are behind in our studies and final exams are next week. The tax deadline is coming up and we haven’t compiled our financial records yet.

God will often surprise us
These and a myriad of other kinds of challenges will confront us in the future and none of them have categorical answers as to what we should do in response on the Sabbath. Each response must be left to the specific will of God. We have to ask him how we should respond. And, we should never expect the same answer to a similar situation in the future. He may say “yes.” He may say “no.” And, he will often surprise us.

Make the most of the astounding privilege
In any case, Sabbath is a day set aside for “hanging out” with God and others. It is, most of all, a relational day. It is a not day for seeking to accomplish anything, but a day for being fully present with our Lord and realizing he is fully present with us. What if we had the opportunity to spend a day with Mother Theresa, Ghandi, Abraham Lincoln, Shakespeare, Mark Twain, Plato, or Moses? Is it an opportunity any of us would pass up? We would do just about anything to clear our calendars so we could spend as much time as possible with one of these famous people. Well, we have been invited to spend an entire day each week, up close and personal, with the most influential and famous person in all of human history—Jesus Christ, Son of God, Creator of the Universe, and Lord of the Sabbath. How about that? Have we been making the most of this opportunity or squandering it? The choice is up to each of us. Just as spending time with Mother Theresa will change our lives, so will hanging out with Jesus. In fact, more––much more!

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Footnotes
1 Exodus 31:14-15
2 Exodus 34:21
3 Exodus 35:1-3

4 Numbers 15:32-36
5 Matthew 5:17-20
6 Matthew 5:21-22
7 Matthew 5:27-29
8
Matthew 5:21-22,27-29
9 John 1:1-3
10 Matthew 12:8; Mark 2:28; Luke 6:5
11 Genesis 1:27
12 Exodus 31:12-13
13 Ibid.
14 Exodus 31:14,15
15 Exodus 31:13
16 Mark 2:27-28
17 Leviticus 23:1-3
18 Psalm 34:8
19 Genesis 2:2-3
20 Leviticus 19:30
21 Exodus 35:3
22 Leviticus 23:3,31
23 Exodus 16:29
24 Nehemiah 10:31
25 Exodus 16:23
26 Exodus 35:3
27 Isaiah 58:13-14
28 Genesis 1:31-2:1
29 Genesis 2:2-3
30 Psalm 92
31 Leviticus 19:30
32 Exodus 20:8
33 Deuteronomy 5:15
34 Exodus 31:13
35 Isaiah 58:13-14
36 Leviticus 23:3
37 Exodus 20:8-11
38 Exodus 23:12

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